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Mar 2024
58m 39s

Building Independence: Why is Boredom Yo...

Erin Hyer
About this episode

You don't need to interact with and entertain your baby during every waking moment. 


Babies need time on their own, too, so they can gradually start to understand that they're independent from you. 


Slowing life down a bit and letting your child be bored can have lots of benefits. 


One of the first things you may notice - even in very young babies - is that it allows them to explore on their own. 


They seek out what interests them instead of relying on us to provide them with something to be interested in.


Your little one deserves the best, and it starts with embracing the beauty of boredom. 


That’s where boredom gives children an inner quiet that helps with imagination and self-awareness.

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In this episode, we'll uncover 10 essential strategies that every new mom can use to harness the power of natural boredom. 

Let's break the myth that constant entertainment is the answer and explore how giving your child the space to BE BORED can actually lead to more fulfilling, imaginative play.

If you're ready to unlock the magic of building independent play and nurturing your child's healthy development, join me on this insightful journey.

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