Join my bestie Stephanie Biegel, also known as Biegs, and me as we tackle the convo of being the only single friend— from the most annoying questions we get asked, to why we say fuck society's timeline, and actually think being single is a good thing. Plus, some of our worst dates and why we stand by "self-love calls in the right love".
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Mar 10
10 Things To Do Before, During, and After Divorce
If you’ve made the decision to get a divorce (or are about to), this episode is for you. I share the 10 things I wish someone had told me before, during, and after my own divorce — from consulting an attorney and protecting your finances, to handling your ex and navigating co-par ... Show More
52m 47s
Mar 3
Inside Family Wounds with Marriage and Family Therapist Vienna Pharaon
I'm joined by Vienna Pharaon, one of the most sought-after family therapists, to dive into how our family dynamics shape all of our relationships, starting in childhood and echoing into adulthood. We explore the five core origin wounds—worthiness, belonging, prioritization, trust ... Show More
1h 18m
Mar 2023
Friendship Breakups, with my Ex-Best Friend, Kristen Ritchie
<p>#82. Payton sits down with her EX-Best Friend, Kirsten Ritchie (AKA High End Hippie) to discuss the ins-&-outs of friendship in your 20s, friendship breakups, and to clear the air on what REALLY went down between the two. </p> <p> </p> <p>SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE M ... Show More
1h 3m
Jul 2023
official dating rules (ft. our husbands)
<p> This week, Chelsey & Jaci are joined by Nick & Leif! They catch up on recent fixations, if girls are funnier than boys, & more. Then they read your submissions & discuss some rules for dating: how many times should you compliment your date? Should you kis ... Show More
1h 9m
May 2024
Cheating Scandal, Our Current Favorites + Taylor Swift Lore
<p>This one’s for the GIRLIE POPS! On this Pretty Basic episode, we chat about running into Scheana from Vanderpump Rules, the VPR finale, our current favorites, moon face and what Remi has learned as she approaches the 1 year mark with her PCOS specialist.</p><p><em>Sponsors:</e ... Show More
1h 13m
Sep 2023
how to lose a guy in 10 days
<p>This week, the girls are sharing lighthearted advice for how to get a guy to lose interest in you. They speak to the source (men) & ask them for their icks like long nails, being whiny, birthday makeup & more!</p><p>Shop our MERCH! <a href="http://shop.dearmedia.c ... Show More
59m 22s
May 2024
How To Become The Coolest Person You Know
<p>#146. Have you ever met someone who is just f*cking COOL? Just effortlessly themselves? When I think of the coolest people I know (namely, my friends), I realize they have a few personality traits in common. In this episode, I’m detailing specific traits that the coolest peopl ... Show More
53m 15s
Oct 2023
Why Dating Is More Difficult As You Get Older
<p>On today’s full solo episode, I discuss dating as you get older vs dating when you’re young. We get into what the difference is in mindset, in standards, and more. We look into myths such as “all the good guys are taken when they’re young,” and women need men more than women.& ... Show More
47m 4s
Oct 2023
the crush I shouldn’t have
<p>This week the girls are reading listener submissions about the crushes they shouldn’t have. They talk about being hung up on an ex, hot teachers, old coworkers, & … step dads?</p><p>Shop our MERCH! <a href="http://shop.dearmedia.com/WHATWESAID" rel="noopener noreferre ... Show More
1h 3m
Jan 2023
I’ve Been Diagnosed with Lucky Girl Syndrome
<p>#75. After a little research on the tiktok-famous ‘lucky girl syndrome,’ Payton shares her take on her recent diagnosis. We’re talking the ins-&-outs of being a lucky girl, how to practice this daily, & how its impacted Payton’s life so far.</p> <p> </p> <p>LUCKY GIRL ... Show More
25m 46s