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Feb 2024
30m 8s

How to be THE ONE that got AWAY

Mafe Anzures
About this episode

Being the one that got away means learning how to leave when you know that you deserve better. What should i do if someone's ghosting me? NOTHING. never let a person tell you they dont want you twice and listen to this episode instead.


  • Do NOT try harder if someone stops trying. Start giving the same energy back, as hard as it is.
  • Indifference is the best revenge. Do not seek closure or explanations, just act indifferent.
  • Keep yourself busy. Prove to yourself that life is so much more and that you can do things without them.
  • Be grateful for who you do have and wants to love you TODAY


with love,

Mafe


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