What Would the Man I Want to Be Do? | FR...

About this episode

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler asks one simple question: What would the man I want to be do? Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

How to become the man that you want to be:

You must identify who that man is
Ask yourself what you notice about other men that you respect.
Detach yourself from the result

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