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Feb 2024
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126. the ONE THING you need to embody ma...

Elicia Goguen
About this episode
Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I'm teaching you the ONE thing that’s helped me fully embody main character energy 💗

00:00 intro
04:23 what is main character energy?
09:57 you have to be willing to take action
13:27 how to get over the fear of being seen
15:58 you need to tap into self acceptance
18:23 how to have confidence & still work on your flaws
24:50 finding self value after feeling unwanted as a poc
33:27 how to stop fearing rejection
38:41 how to stop comparing yourself to other women
41:39 do you need to be dolled up to have mc energy?
44:28 pressure in & out of the black community
49:43 rebuilding confidence & trust in yourself
52:04 feeling confidence as you age
54:45 have confidence at work around competitive people
56:41 be confident speaking in larger groups
58:20 having confidence around men & asking someone out
1:02:17 feeling confident at home but not when going out
(rough timestamps for audio listeners as the ad placements might change the timing slightly)

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