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Apr 2022
25m 57s

How do I tell him I love him?

Alex Cooper
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In a highly anticipated trip, we are heading to France. Let’s talk about the L-bomb and when to drop it. I’ve been with my partner for a year, is it appropriate to say I love you? What if they don’t say it back? There are so many questions surrounding this moment and Big Al addresses them all. We all know about Only Fans, but what about when your boyfriend is the one who has one? Let’s pause for a little PSA. No one should tell you to put your vibrator away during sex, you deserve all of the clit stimulation in the world. Alex also provides advice on how to reset your relationship and escape the “ick”. Buckle up for a little story time, Big Al takes us on a journey that begins with a purity ring and ends with a google doc coordinated sex spree. Enjoy!

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