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Jan 2024
44m 51s

153: On Sex and the City: Secret Sex

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After revisiting Sex and the City’s extravagant two-part finale, we decided to throw it back to season one. A simpler time when Carrie still talked to camera and had a lot of random straight male friends that were never heard from again. A highlight from this era is Secret Sex, a.k.a. the episode where Carrie and Big go on their first date, Miranda discovers her love interest’s spanking fetish, and Charlotte reveals her illicit affair with a Hasidic folk artist. Plus: a eulogy for the Bed, Bath, & Beyond on Sixth Avenue.

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