logo
episode-header-image
Jan 2024
15m 37s

Is Your Love Conditional?

MARK GREGSTON
About this episode

Teens long to be loved unconditionally, especially when they deserve it the least. When kids feel that they'll lose love for making mistakes, they may resort to lying or seeking love in the wrong places. In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd provide practical strategies for parents to communicate unconditional love to their teens, such as reining in negative comments, validating their kids regardless of how they perform and being careful in communicating expectations. Remember, our children need to know that they are loved deeply, not for what they do, but simply for who they are. It's a powerful message that can transform their lives — tune in now!

For more inspiration and encouragement, check out Mark's newest devotional, "Daily Hope For Families," at dailyhopeforfamilies.com

Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Up next
Today
I Mustache Mark a Question: Double Lives, Depression and Difficult Conversations
In this Q&A episode, Mark addresses some tough challenges parents are facing with their teens today. He answers listener questions on supporting a teen dealing with depression and drug use, how to respond when teens show no interest in talking about relationships and what to do i ... Show More
29m 45s
Yesterday
Are You Giving Your Teen Enough Responsibility?
Your job as a parent isn’t simply to teach your teen what to do — it’s to prepare them to eventually do it without you. Mark, Wayne and Courtney unpack the important progression from teaching to training to transferring responsibility. They explain why parenting must change durin ... Show More
24m 50s
Sep 16
Turning Life Lessons Into Lasting Wisdom
Your teen has access to more information than ever before. What they need from you is something Google can’t give them: wisdom. In this episode, Mark explains how parents and grandparents can turn biblical truth, personal experiences, mistakes and lessons learned into wisdom teen ... Show More
28m 13s
Recommended Episodes
Oct 2023
A Prayer for Parenting Teenagers
Teens struggle for acceptance among peers, and as parents, we need to remind them that they are loved and accepted just as God created them, not because of how they look, what they drive, or the toys that they possess. We need to pray against the negative influence they are most ... Show More
5m 47s
Feb 2024
Motherly Love In Theory & Practice: Episode 451
What does loving your children actually feel like? Is it a split-second, life-altering love like we hear about, or is it a deep background hum that builds over time? Is there a difference between loving our kids and loving the motherhood experience? Today Meagan and Sarah unpack ... Show More
55m 57s
Dec 2022
Teens Obsessed With Love
Teens are obsessed with love more than ever. Parents are concerned over measures their daughters take to keep a boyfriend. A poll asked teens about extreme behavior, some saying they had sex when the didn't want to. Parents, don't miss these safety steps. Learn more about your ad ... Show More
44m 38s
Mar 2024
How you deserve to be loved
We have recorded episodes in the past on the topics of relationships, dating and love; however, today we are diving into what I believe is important to have in your relationships whether your in love or wanting to be loved. Some of these may be hot takes, but I have witnessed the ... Show More
47m 43s
Sep 2023
Parenting Teens
Emma Mae is joined by Momma J to talk about parents navigating relationships with their teenage and adult children. Momma J emphasizes the importance of being honest with your kids because it helps establish a healthy relationship with them. Emma Mae and Momma J share how discipl ... Show More
24m 14s
Feb 2023
This Is Better Than I Love You
Of course, we try to tell our children we love them. Sometimes they receive it. Sometimes they roll their eyes. Sometimes–depending on how we grew up and what we saw from our parents–even just saying ‘I love you’ can be difficult or a stretch for us.✉️ Sign up for the Daily Dad e ... Show More
2m 33s
Apr 2023
Love, Trust, and Development - Season 3 Episode 15
Maria Montessori calls on parents to trust their children with their own development. But, in practice, that is really hard to do, especially with how much we love our children. In this week's episode, Nicole and Amy unpack a Montessori quote about love, fault-finding, trust, and ... Show More
39m 54s
Nov 2024
Do Parents Really Love All Their Kids The Same?
<p>In this episode, Jess and Scott dive into the challenges of parenting multiple children and giving each child the love and attention they need.</p><p>Inspired by a viral social media post, they explore topics like balancing attention between babies and older kids, feelings of ... Show More
23m 3s