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Jan 2024
15m 37s

Is Your Love Conditional?

MARK GREGSTON
About this episode

Teens long to be loved unconditionally, especially when they deserve it the least. When kids feel that they'll lose love for making mistakes, they may resort to lying or seeking love in the wrong places. In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd provide practical strategies for parents to communicate unconditional love to their teens, such as reining in negative comments, validating their kids regardless of how they perform and being careful in communicating expectations. Remember, our children need to know that they are loved deeply, not for what they do, but simply for who they are. It's a powerful message that can transform their lives — tune in now!

For more inspiration and encouragement, check out Mark's newest devotional, "Daily Hope For Families," at dailyhopeforfamilies.com

Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

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