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Jan 2024
1h 21m

Locked Up for Love (Guest: Destiny Payto...

LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD
About this episode

Healing from divorce is a long road, but it is possible. Laterras sits down with Destiny Payton and she opens up about her healing journey after a turbulent divorce, sharing her resilience through challenges like incarceration. Together, they explore past traumas and family history, revealing the profound impact on marriage choices. Discover Destiny's healing, her perspective on forgiveness, dealing with breakups and where she stands in her journey to love.

 

[00:00:00 - 00:03:39] - Opening segment

[00:03:40 - 00:09:01] - What happened to Destiny Payton? 

[00:09:02 - 00:15:47] - How did Destiny surrender to the jail system? 

[00:15:48 - 19:41]  - Using dialogue to avoid conflict

[00:19:42 - 27:56] - Dealing with past traumas and EMDR Therapy

[00:27:57 - 29:44] - How do current experiences bring up old trauma?

[00:29:55 - 36:31] - Timeline of Destiny’s past relationship 

[00:36:32 - 41:34] - Unaddressed trauma

[00:41:35 - 43:24] - How does your childhood affect your energy?

[00:43:25 - 45:00] - The impact of the death of Destiny’s older brother on her life 

[00:45:01 - 52:51] - Destiny’s experience with reality TV 

[00:52:52 - 59:17] - Handling betrayal

[00:59:18 - 01:06:35] - Is your ex allowed to date? 

[01:06:36 - 01:21:32] - A message for Destiny’s ex 

 

 

Key Quote: 

 

“God didn’t take the storm away, but he gave me peace” - Destiny Payton.

 

 

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