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Jan 2024
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216: 5 Mistakes That Make Him Tune You O...

Laura Doyle
About this episode

This was one of the great mysteries of my life, so I want to share this with as many women as possible. I don't want anybody to suffer just because they don't know about these mistakes. Because before I knew them, I suffered. Just a few years into our marriage, my husband John refused to do housework. When I tried to tell him to wash the dishes, he just turned up the TV to drown me out. I begged, demanded, and repeated myself. I signed us up for marriage counseling, but it didn't help. He just didn't care about helping me, which made me question the whole marriage. Then I discovered a phrase that made him do chores willingly. The first time I tried it, John offered to clean the kitchen. And he did. That was over 20 years ago, and he's been cleaning it ever since. Thousands of my students have also used this cheat phrase with great success. But it won't work if you make these common mistakes that almost cost me my marriage. On today's episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast, I'm revealing 5 alarming mistakes that make him tune you out.

Plus, my guest Jamese had zero romance at her house because her husband was always on the computer. And they were newlyweds! But then Jamese "got herself some business" and got off of her husband's paper. Today, her marriage is fresh, loving, and fun! She's going to tell us how she did it so you can do it too. 

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  • 6 SIMPLE steps to bring back playfulness, passion, and connection to your marriage.

  • The 3 COMMON mistakes wives make when trying to fix things (and how to avoid them!).

  • A clear, actionable plan to create the joyful, loving marriage you deserve.

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