Keith Yackey, a former pastor, now helps men enhance their relationships by understanding the dynamics of attraction in marriage.
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Having gone through a challenging time where his wife left him, Keith learned to distinguish between short-term and long-term attraction and realized he was the problem in his marriage, and he needed to be the solution.
Keith identifies five key dials for marital success:
1. **Parenting Dial:** Focusing on being a good parent.
2. **Partner Dial:** Showing up for your partner.
3. **Producer Dial:** Providing for your family.
4. **Player Dial:** Having fun and enjoying activities with your spouse.
5. **Power Dial:** Doing what you say you'll do when you say you'll do it, building trust.
More critical than providing is the need for men to feel wanted by their wives, emphasizing the importance of setting a higher standard for themselves. Keith's personal transformation and reunion with his wife inspired him to help other men facing similar challenges, driven by a divine calling.
Ryan shares his perspective on marriage, emphasizing giving everything for his wife rather than expecting a 50/50 arrangement. The conversation explores the unique dynamics of marriage for believers, highlighting the importance of mutual respect for divine roles and responsibilities.
They discuss the "catch and count" game, a tool Keith uses to help men assess their relationship performance. The concept of a real alpha male is debunked, focusing on qualities such as meekness and true power, as opposed to hypermasculinity.
Both hosts stress the value of transparency and openness in relationships, with Keith sharing his insights on addressing things you can't change about your spouse. Ryan emphasizes the significance of shared faith in maintaining a strong and enduring connection.
The discussion concludes with the idea that leadership is about influence, and the most effective form of leadership is servant leadership. Keith's podcast, "The Married Game," explores these themes further, encouraging open communication and vulnerability in marriage.