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Jan 2024
52m 40s

Ep 54: Blowjobs 101 with Eleanor Hadley

Meg and Jacob O'Neill
About this episode

Brace yourselves for another sizzling episode with Meg and the incredible Eleanor Hadley!

Eleanor, the brains behind the viral "Tongue Tactics" course, spills the beans on mind-blowing BJ moves that will set your sex life on fire. From the illusion of deepthroating to a pepper grinder dance, she's got the 'magic sequence' of oral down pat.

But that's not all – Meg and Eleanor dive into the essentials of communication, consent, and the crucial role of connection in the bedroom. It's not just about the moves; it's about the vibes.

They also riff off on... 

  •  Meg shares her journey of overcoming discomfort with giving blow jobs to feel powerful and pleasure her partner. 
  • Eleanor  discuss techniques for pleasing a partner during oral sex, including varying depth and rhythm. 
  • Eleanor also discusses the importance of building up to a "magic sequence" in oral sex, using a variety of techniques to keep the partner engaged and interested. 
  •  Using mirrors and eye contact during oral sex to feel  powerful and to get even more turned on
  • They  discuss the importance of women taking up space in sexual relationships and feeling comfortable with their own desires. 
  •  They unpack the Madonna-whore complex and how it affects women's sexual liberation and self-perception. 
  • Meg  advocates for embracing awkwardness and discomfort to access new parts of oneself and enjoy sex more fully.
  • Eleanor shares their perspective on dating and relationships, emphasizing the importance of self-work and being true to oneself.

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⚡️Let’s Stay Connected:  

IG: @the.meg.o @thejacoboneill @sexloveeverythinginbetween

⚡ Connect with Eleanor Hadley:
IG: https://www.instagram.com/eleanorhadley
Website: https://www.eleanorhadley.com/
Enroll in Tongue Tactics: https://www.eleanorhadley.com/tonguetactics

⚡ Want more? Here are some of the offerings & courses you can join us in…

The Desire Date: A sexy date night experience for couples ready to re-ignite passion & deepen intimacy. ---> https://bit.ly/49r28Zt

Ignite Your Intimacy: A 4 week course for couples ready for a sexier, wilder, more ALIVE relationship… NOW! ---> https://bit.ly/3R0ihxU

Jacob & Meg also coach individuals & couples. Reach out to them via Instagram for more information. 




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