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Dec 2023
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158. How to Win Friends and Be More Inte...

SUSAN CALLENDER
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To win friends and be more interesting to people, it is crucial to hone your active listening skills. Begin by giving your undivided attention to the speaker, maintaining eye contact, and eliminating distractions. Show your presence by resisting the urge to formulate responses prematurely, allowing the speaker to express themselves fully.

Demonstrate empathy by acknowledging the speaker's feelings and perspectives. Utilize open-ended questions to encourage elaborate responses, fostering a deeper connection. Paraphrasing and summarizing what you've heard not only confirm your understanding but also convey a commitment to the conversation.

Avoid interruptions and practice patience, allowing the speaker to share their thoughts without feeling rushed. Provide positive feedback and appreciation for their insights, creating a supportive and affirming atmosphere. Being non-judgmental and suspending immediate opinions fosters an open dialogue where individuals feel valued and understood. Remembering details from past conversations showcases your investment in the relationship, further strengthening the bond. By incorporating these elements, you can master the art of listening, ultimately winning friends and captivating people's interest through genuine and attentive communication.

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