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Dec 2023
26m 16s

Ep 183 - Don't Be A Bitter Single Girl

Tinx
About this episode

The holidays are filled with parties and traveling home to see family and friends.  It’s also a time where everyone shares their opinion about your dating life.  You may even think “when it is my turn?”  All of this is extremely overwhelming, but you cannot (I repeat cannot) get bitter…I’m going to tell you why.   

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