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Dec 2023
1h 24m

Beyond the Bedroom: Hacking Your Erotic ...

Dave Asprey
About this episode

Dive into a captivating exploration of human biology and connection—erotic blueprints. Discover four primal drivers: fear, food, friends, and fertility, with a unique focus on fertility in this episode.

Miss Jaiya, a leader in somatic sexology, sheds light on the intimate realm of human relationships and pleasure. As an award-winning somatic sexologist and creator of The Erotic Blueprints® Framework, Jaiya dedicates her expertise to helping people understand their unique erotic blueprints and their impact on intimate lives. Her latest book, "Your Blueprint for Pleasure," offers invaluable insights into a revolutionary language for bedroom communication and sexual vitality.

This episode delves into the concept of erotic blueprints, Jaiya's research, and the unique paths to turn-on and blissful gratification for each individual. This conversation aims to understand people's true desires and needs in intimate relationships, free from taboos or judgment.

Highlighting that sex and intimacy are vital for well-being, just like food and breathing, this discussion includes personal experiences and emphasizes the importance of vulnerability. Learn how understanding your erotic blueprint can enhance connections and satisfaction in the bedroom.

Whether seeking to enrich intimate life or deepen understanding of human biology and connection, this episode offers valuable insights for everyone.

(01:34) Reconciling Spirituality & Sexuality: Jaiya’s Sexual Empowerment Journey

(12:00) Why Sex Is the New Frontier of Personal Growth & Biohacking

(15:25) Jaiya’s Wildest Energetically Erotic Experience

(21:35) Conscious Kink & Blending Psychedelics With Sexuality

(30:52) Your Pleasure Blueprint: Defining the 5 Erotic Types

(34:55) Discovering the Erotic Blueprint Through Her Own Relationship

(40:01) Addressing the Intimacy Issue in Our World & Sending Love Through the Field

(46:44) Confronting the Taboo of Pleasure

(52:11) Mastering Energetic Sexuality & Orgasms

(01:01:48) Risks in Using Psychedelics for Creation Energy

(01:06:49) The Dark Side of Spiritual Ecstatic Altered States & How To Protect Your Field

Resources

Dave Asprey’s NEW Book ‘Smarter Not Harder’ is out now: https://daveasprey.com/books 

Website: blueprintbreakthrough.com

Read: Your Blueprint For Pleasure by Jaiya 

Instagram: @missjaiya

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