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Nov 2023
25m 50s

Why You Sabotage Yourself...And How To S...

Dr. Aziz: Social Anxiety And Confidence Expert, Author and Coach
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Liberating Yourself From The Hidden Forces That Hold You Back

Are you caught in the web of self-sabotage, feeling stuck and unsure how to break free?

Dr. Aziz brings to light the covert workings of self-sabotage, expertly unraveling why we unknowingly create barriers to our success, happiness, and relationships. More importantly, Dr. Aziz doesn't just diagnose the problem; he offers actionable solutions.

Dive deep into understanding the 'safety police' in your mind that prioritizes perceived safety over growth, and learn how to challenge its influence.

This episode is a treasure trove of insights for anyone looking to overcome internal obstacles and embrace a life of confidence, connection, and achievement. J

oin Dr. Aziz as he guides you through a journey of self-discovery and empowerment, transforming your fears into stepping stones towards your true potential.

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