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Jul 2023
45m 46s

Why 'The Notebook' Sets You Up for Relat...

Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski
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When it comes to romantic movies, "The Notebook" is often hailed as a classic. It has captivated the hearts of audiences worldwide with its tale of passionate love and undying devotion. However, beneath the surface of this seemingly heartwarming story lies a dangerous set of relationship myths and toxic behaviors. This podcast will explore why "The Notebook" can lead to relationship failure and the importance of approaching romance with a more realistic mindset.

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