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Nov 2023
22m 27s

I Was Stealthed. What Do I Do Now?

Nova Podcasts
About this episode

TRIGGER WARNING: This episode contains discussion of sexual assault.

Today's question is from a listener who's been on a few nice dates with a man, but on their last date, when things went further & they were having sex, he didn't wear a condom even though she'd asked him to. He made his excuses, but she still feels uneasy. Does this incident make him a bad person? Is she over-reacting & how can she trust men in the bedroom again?

If you have a question for Clementine, send an email to dearclementine@novapodcasts.com.au 

Get Clementine's new book 'I Don't: The Case Against Marriage' now!

CREDITS 
Executive Producer: Edwina Stott 
Audio Production: Adrian Walton 
Managing Producer: Elle Beattie 

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