There’s a lot of research out there on the subject of anal sex; however, surprisingly little of it has focused on how women feel about this activity. Fortunately, a large nationally representative study of women’s experiences with anal touch recently came out that sheds important light on the subject. In today’s show, we’re going to dive in ... Show More
Yesterday
Episode 550: Are We Teaching People To Be Bad Lovers?
Most of us spend years learning about sex before we ever have it. We absorb messages from our families, friends, schools, pornography, and popular culture about what sex is supposed to look like and how we're supposed to behave. But what if some of those lessons are actually sett ... Show More
35m 8s
Oct 30
Episode 549: How Men Can Have Better Sex
A lot of men feel pressure to perform in the bedroom. They worry about getting and maintaining erections, lasting long enough, and satisfying their partners. But these concerns can sometimes get in the way of the very thing they're trying to achieve, which is a pleasurable and sa ... Show More
33m 58s
Oct 27
Episode 548: What Every Man Needs To Know For Better Sexual Health
When we talk about men's sexual health, the conversation often revolves around things like erections, testosterone, and sexual performance. But there's so much more to sexual health than what happens in the bedroom. In this episode, we're going to explore the science of men's sex ... Show More
34m 3s
Apr 2023
Bottoms Up: Anal Sex For All
When you think about anal sex, what comes to mind? Does it make you feel turned on? Nervous? Like something you want to try or do more of, but you’re not sure about the best way to approach it? On today’s show, I help you get more comfortable with anal play by answering your top ... Show More
30m 41s
Oct 2024
All Things Anal w/ Dr. Evan Goldstein
Anal sex isn’t as taboo as it once was but many people are still too shy to explore it. Today, I’m talking with nationally renowned anal surgeon and expert Dr. Evan Goldstein, about all things anal. From how to clean up before backdoor play (did you know you can be too clean?), t ... Show More
52m 18s
Sep 2025
#449 Buzzing with Pleasure: What the Research Says
The Ultimate Pleasure Experiment: Can a Magic Wand Really Change Your Sex Life? Get ready for a fascinating conversation with Danielle Bezalel, MPH, aka DB, the Creator and Host of Sex Ed with DB, and a special anonymous guest who participated in the Magic Wand study. Here's what ... Show More
57m 50s
Aug 2025
#448 Bottoms Up: Exploring Anal Play, Training, and Fisting
Let's Get Real About Anal: Breaking Down Fears and Unlocking Pleasure Are you ready to talk about the butt? Like, really talk about it? Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the world of anal sex with Jamie Joy, a certified sex educator and self-proclaimed "hun ... Show More
1h 15m
Aug 2024
153 How much sex should you have? Vibrator recommendations. Anal tips. Is porn bad? Your questions answered - part 1
In this episode, Emily answers your sex and relationship questions. My vibrator recommendations I want to try anal, but it always hurts, what can I do? How much sex do people have? Can you desensitise your nerves (clitoris) from using vibrators? Is porn bad? FOLLOW US on Insta ... Show More
28m 23s
Nov 2025
Cutting Edge Pleasure Research for Queer Black Women with Dr. Shemeka Thorpe
Black folks are often left out of research studies. Queer people are often left out of research studies. Women are often left out of research studies. So if you're a Black queer woman, there's hardly any research about your specific needs, struggles, and pleasure -- and that's wh ... Show More
45m 26s