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Oct 2023
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Episode 237: How Women Feel About Anal S...

DR. JUSTIN LEHMILLER
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There’s a lot of research out there on the subject of anal sex; however, surprisingly little of it has focused on how women feel about this activity. Fortunately, a large nationally representative study of women’s experiences with anal touch recently came out that sheds important light on the subject. In today’s show, we’re going to dive in ... Show More
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