There’s a lot of research out there on the subject of anal sex; however, surprisingly little of it has focused on how women feel about this activity. Fortunately, a large nationally representative study of women’s experiences with anal touch recently came out that sheds important light on the subject. In today’s show, we’re going to dive in ... Show More
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Episode 523: Real Stories of Non-Monogamy
Open relationships, polyamory, and consensual non-monogamy are receiving more attention than ever, yet they’re still surrounded by stereotypes and misconceptions. In her new book, Alyssa Shelasky moves beyond the debate by sharing the real-life stories of people navigating these ... Show More
31m 10s
Jul 28
Episode 522: What People’s Sex Diaries Reveal About Modern Intimacy
Most of us only get small glimpses into other people’s sex lives, which can make our own experiences feel more unusual than they really are. But what happens when you spend years hearing the unfiltered truth about people’s desires, insecurities, relationships, and intimate experi ... Show More
30m 24s
Jul 23
Episode 521: An Intimacy Coordinator’s Tips For Better Sex
In the previous episode, we went behind the scenes of film and television to explore how intimacy coordinators help create authentic, safe, and compelling intimate scenes. But the lessons from this profession extend far beyond Hollywood. In this episode, we’re bringing those less ... Show More
32m 23s
Apr 2023
Bottoms Up: Anal Sex For All
When you think about anal sex, what comes to mind? Does it make you feel turned on? Nervous? Like something you want to try or do more of, but you’re not sure about the best way to approach it? On today’s show, I help you get more comfortable with anal play by answering your top ... Show More
30m 41s
Oct 2024
All Things Anal w/ Dr. Evan Goldstein
Anal sex isn’t as taboo as it once was but many people are still too shy to explore it. Today, I’m talking with nationally renowned anal surgeon and expert Dr. Evan Goldstein, about all things anal. From how to clean up before backdoor play (did you know you can be too clean?), t ... Show More
52m 18s
Jul 2023
142-women lacking drive, spicing up foreplay, the truth about penis size & anal play 101.
ALIENS, BIG DICKS &ANAL PLAY OH MY. Also penis size- is it a big deal, do you finally want someone to tell you the fucking truth? Ive got ya! One listener question I discuss the ever so popular woe of mismatched libido and a woman's sex drive post hysterectomy and one husbands ex ... Show More
58m 24s
Sep 2025
#449 Buzzing with Pleasure: What the Research Says
The Ultimate Pleasure Experiment: Can a Magic Wand Really Change Your Sex Life? Get ready for a fascinating conversation with Danielle Bezalel, MPH, aka DB, the Creator and Host of Sex Ed with DB, and a special anonymous guest who participated in the Magic Wand study. Here's what ... Show More
59m 19s
Aug 2025
#448 Bottoms Up: Exploring Anal Play, Training, and Fisting
Let's Get Real About Anal: Breaking Down Fears and Unlocking Pleasure Are you ready to talk about the butt? Like, really talk about it? Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the world of anal sex with Jamie Joy, a certified sex educator and self-proclaimed "hun ... Show More
1h 16m
Aug 2024
153 How much sex should you have? Vibrator recommendations. Anal tips. Is porn bad? Your questions answered - part 1
In this episode, Emily answers your sex and relationship questions. My vibrator recommendations I want to try anal, but it always hurts, what can I do? How much sex do people have? Can you desensitise your nerves (clitoris) from using vibrators? Is porn bad? FOLLOW US on Insta ... Show More
28m 23s
Nov 2025
Cutting Edge Pleasure Research for Queer Black Women with Dr. Shemeka Thorpe
Black folks are often left out of research studies. Queer people are often left out of research studies. Women are often left out of research studies. So if you're a Black queer woman, there's hardly any research about your specific needs, struggles, and pleasure -- and that's wh ... Show More
45m 26s