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Oct 2023
57m 58s

Relationship Manipulation Tactics (w/ E....

Headgum & Nicole Byer
About this episode

Comedian E.R. Fightmaster (Shrill, Grey's Anatomy) joins Nicole to discuss the benefits of keeping romantic partnerships out of the public eye, how dating reality TV shows are normalizing abuse in relationships, and the common manipulation tactics to watch out for in your love life. Plus, they share horniest they've ever been in their life, and what it's like to write horny music.

Check out E.R.'s new EP, VIOLENCE, out today.

 

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