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Oct 2023
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Ask Uncut - I don't love him, but I want...

BRITTANY HOCKLEY AND LAURA BYRNE
About this episode

Hey guys,

First up today, things are a bit...ahhh not classy. There's a vomit tax being added to a bottomless brunch and we all lack so much dignity that we've taken doggy bags from buffets. Cozzie livs crisis, ya know?

Vibes and unsubscribes for this week:

Laura: The moment I realised my dad killed my mum on No Filter

If you'd like to listen to our episode with Lynette's neice Renee, you can here

Britt: Netflix's "Lupin"

Keeshia: Unsubscribing from Jada Pinkett Smith

Vibe Fact or fiction- the Briefing episode

Then we jump into your questions:

I’m 31, recently found out I have a very low AMH level and endometriosis and I’m in a relationship with someone I know isn’t my soulmate. We’ve been together for 7 months (we decided early on to start trying) and so far not having any luck. I just bought my first house, and he is 37, still living in a shared house on a mattress on the floor. He already has an 8 year old from a previous relationship. Although I know our relationship is not right, I am so overcome with feelings of panic of being childless and feeling like my time is running out. I feel like I need to stay with him. I have always dreamed of having children and the thought of potentially becoming single again and not getting that opportunity sends me into a spiral of helplessness and despair

-My husband and I have been married for 10 years & we have 2 kids. Our sex life, I think, is good; usually once per week on the weekend. He has asked me if I was alright with him living out one of his fantasies. He would like to go to a rub and tug place. Is this cheating? I don't really have a problem with a random person getting him off, it's not like it means anything. What do you think?

-I used to love having sex but now I dread it. I loved having sex until I gave birth to my baby 2 years ago and now I never feel the desire. I just do it because I know my husband wants it. I also used to go down on him a lot & used to like masterbating but I don't really do either anymore. I know he feels rejected and I feel bad. I thought the urge would come back and I don't know what to do

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