logo
episode-header-image
Oct 2023
44m 1s

Experiences as a Man with BPD (feat. Con...

Sara Abbott, MSW, LCSW, LICSW
About this episode

Connor joins the podcast to discuss his life with borderline personality disorder. Connor had signs of behavioural challenges very early on which led to a BPD diagnosis in his late teens. 


Throughout his life Connor has struggled with ADHD, anger management issues, alcoholism, aggressive behaviour, and high risk impulsive behaviours. 

In next week’s episode you’ll hear from Connor’s family members about their perspective on his story! 

TW: police involvement resulting in injury


This episode featured Laurie Edmundson who previously was a co-host of this project. You can find her at https://www.laurieedmundson.com and on IG @laurieanned where you will find ways to access The Super Feelers Club and other projects she works on.

Send us a text message to be anonymously read and responded to!

Support the show

You can find Sara on Instagram @borderlinefromhell. You can also find the podcast on IG @boldbeautifulborderline

Corey Evans is the artist for the music featured. He can be found HERE
Talon Abbott created the cover art. He. can be found HERE

Leave us a voicemail about your thoughts or questions on the show at boldbeautifulborderline.com

If you like the show we would love if you could rate, subscribe and support us on Patreon.

Patreon info here: https://www.patreon.com/boldbeautifulborderline?fan_landing=true

Purchase Sara's Exploring Your Borderline Strengths Journal at https://www.amazon.com/Exploring-Your-Borderline-Strengths-Amundson/dp/B0C522Y7QT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=IGQBWJRE3CFX&keywords=exploring+your+borderline+strengths&qid=1685383771&sprefix=exploring+your+bor%2Caps%2C164&sr=8-1

For mental health supports:

National Suicide Pr...

Up next
Yesterday
Take The BPD Quiz With Me
In today's episode I take an Instagram ad quiz on BPD - what type of BPD am I???? (Reminder, clinically this does not exist. There are not types of BPD in the DSM 5 TR, which is the diagnostic tool used for giving appropriate diagnoses. This episode is simply for silly, play, fun ... Show More
25m 39s
Aug 17
Mothering and Borderline (Feat. Emily)
Today my new friend Emily joins the podcast to talk her journey to getting a borderline diagnosis, mothering, and marriage. Thank you Emily for sharing your heart and wisdom with me - it came at a time when I really needed it. Send us a text message to be anonymously read and res ... Show More
40m 53s
Aug 10
WTF is Self-Compassion?!
In this episode, we break down what self-compassion actually means—without the fluff or fake positivity. We’ll explore why being kind to yourself feels so hard, especially if you’re used to self-criticism as a motivator. You’ll learn practical ways to start treating yourself with ... Show More
22m 34s
Recommended Episodes
Feb 2022
Did Your Parents or Caretakers Cause Your BPD?
Send us a textIn this episode, Kristin discusses whether or not BPD is caused by our parents/caretakers. She also discusses potential benefits of Patreon and would like to know if this is something that would be of interest to you. Like the episode? Be sure to subscribe to the po ... Show More
25m 48s
Nov 2022
Bryony Gordon on OCD, Overcoming Addiction and Building Mental Resilience #314
CAUTION: Contains swearing and themes of an adult nature. Today’s guest has a remarkable life story which includes addiction, mental health struggles, eating disorders, guilt, shame and so much more. Bryony Gordon is a prominent mental health campaigner, a journalist and a bestse ... Show More
1h 55m
May 2023
Therapist Reveals Sneaky Manipulation Tactics You Need to Watch Out For! | Terri Cole
There is something both sobering and chilling about being manipulated, especially by someone close to you. The feeling of betrayal and pain can leave you untrusting of everyone after that, and the emotional aftermath can lead to years of therapy or unhealthy behaviors.If you’re a ... Show More
1h 36m
Dec 2023
The BPD Stigma - A Discussion with Rachel Sievers
Send us a textIn this episode, Kristin chats with Rachel Sievers, host of "Consent to Treat" Podcast all about BPD. PLUS the new podcast community has also launched! See the link below to check it out or click here.Like the episode? Be sure to subscribe to the podcast so that you ... Show More
32m 19s
Nov 2022
IS HE USING YOU? - Signs You Have POOR BOUNDARIES & Are Being MANIPULATED? | Terri Cole
The thought of family gatherings gives the best of anxiety. Navigating close relationships and those once or twice a year holiday encounters doesn’t have to be so intimidating with the right tools. The key is recognizing that you have disordered boundaries, and the Boundary Boss, ... Show More
1h 38m
Apr 2024
Avoidant Personality Disorder
Healthy//Toxic Healthy versus Toxic is a podcast where licensed mental health professionals explore what makes a relationship healthy or unhealthy. Our hosts aim to provide a scientifically informed perspective on what factors go into making healthy relationships, how to build se ... Show More
23m 40s
Jan 2023
Break Down Bonus: The impact of mental health on relationships + factitious disorder commentary w/ Dr. Puder
Abby and Coworker Justin are back at it again and comment on this week's episode! They talk about how mental health affects relationships and the beauty of walking with your partner when they're really going through it (obviously, when they're not deceiving you about their condit ... Show More
38m 3s
Oct 2022
mental health is a journey
EP19 - Hey guys, a bit of a different one this week! I chatted with Bethan Buswell from the Mental Health Foundation about the relationship we have with ourselves, and how this can affect our mental health. I shared so much about my journey, relationship with myself, when I feel ... Show More
58m 11s
May 2018
113: Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder
This week on the show I have a guest to talk to us about one of the most misunderstood and over-used labels I’ve run across: borderline personality disorder. Dr. Robin Arthur is a fantastic and knowledgeable expert who has been working with BPD individuals for years and has manag ... Show More
54m 58s
Feb 2019
Living With Borderline Personality Disorder | Kelsey Cook
This week we welcome VERY special guest, World Foosball Champion, Podcaster, and Stand up Comic, Kelsey Cook. We discuss the new Netflix documentary: Murder Mountain, how to get into porn, what signs to look out for when dealing with someone diagnosed with Borderline Personality ... Show More
41m 34s