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Oct 2023
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233. Booty Play and Butt Stuff

Kelly Casperson, MD
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Booty Play and Butt Stuff

I am back with Jenn Mason!  Check out our older episodes on toys and more #45, #49 and #52

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The more people are empowered in their sexuality, hopefully this will decrease the bad things.

What is booty play and let’s define what it is and what the body parts are.

How do people get started with butt stuff?

No one gets extra points for going up in size with booty play.

Tips for starting to explore.

Consent and doing stuff because my partner wants me to.

The importance of communication.

Is booty play guaranteed pain?

Pain is a sign to slow down or stop.

How to people prepare for receptive booty play.

How messy is booty play in real life?

Lube lube lube

Is it okay to ejaculate in the rectum?

Rules for booty play

Do you need to use condoms?

What anuses are supposed to look like.

Is there a lube that is specific for booty play?

Anal play safety

Does booty play make me gay?

How to talk to your health care provider about anal sex.

If someone wants anal sex does that mean he is weird?

Can receptive anal play mess up my body?

Does the penis have to be a certain type of hard for penetrative play?

 

Why does this not go well sometimes?

 

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