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Oct 2023
43 m

I Left. Now I Want My Wife Back.

Esther Perel Global Media
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He fell in love with someone at work and left his wife. Fast forward a year, he's engaged and realizes he's made a mistake. Now he wants his wife and his life back—but even if she takes him back, he tells Esther he doesn't feel he deserves to be happy. Esther Callings are a one time, 45-60 minute interventional phone call with Esther. They are edited for ti ... Show More
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