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Oct 2023
44m 49s

Why Does Everyone Hate Kids?

Gwenna Laithland and Tori Phantom
About this episode
When did you know you wanted kids? Some of us are still waiting for that moment, and that’s okay. After reading a recent article about how friendships are affected when a child is introduced, Gwenna and Tori wanted to open a conversation about how society's mindset towards children has changed. They also delve into the difference between choosing to be child ... Show More
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