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Sep 2023
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How to Be Excellent (NOT a Perfectionist...

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They say that perfection is the enemy of the good. But what is true goodness in a pursuit? What does excellence actually look like and consist of? Today, Fr. Mike urges us to practice two qualities that lie at the heart of excellence: promptness and preparedness. 
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