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Sep 2023
15m 22s

LOG SEX, Getting her OFF and MUTUAL MAST...

Coffee and Cleavage
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Lynnie, Shantal and Gary chat about a fan submitted question about what to do when your partner is not reacting or having LOG SEX aka BORING SEX.  They discuss how log sex can come to be and what to do about. Mutual masturbation as a means for double pleasure. Plus Gary shares his one track mind in his 20's and how men need to prioritize their partners sexual satisfaction by getting her off.  

PRO TIP: if you missed the Art of Thrusting listen to that episode following this one!

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