This is the story behind the biggest leap of our lives.

In this new episode of How to Stay Human, Tori and Kyle open up about the decision to leave Las Vegas, uproot their entire lives, and begin again in Austin — not from fear, not from pressure, but from alignment, trust, and truth.

This episode is an intimate look at what it means to follow your soul when the path is unclear, the timing feels inconvenient, and the stakes are high.

It’s about endings done well, beginnings done bravely, and learning to trust the signs that guide you into your next chapter.

We explore how to choose calling over comfort, how to maintain sovereignty inside relationship, how to honor the seasons of your life, and why true partnership never asks you to abandon yourself.

This is a conversation about alignment, courage, devotion, and the unknown — and what becomes possible when you say yes before you have all the answers.

What We Cover

The fear and excitement of starting over in a new city

Why all meaningful change begins with a single yes

How to know when a season of your life is complete

Why endings deserve intention, closure, and respect

How to live from calling rather than comfort

The difference between commitment and devotion

How to stay sovereign inside relationship

What it means to follow signs instead of logic

Why resistance to change creates suffering

Asking the question: What do you want to be known for in this chapter?

This Episode Is For You If:

You feel a life change coming, but you’re afraid to act

You’re in a season of uncertainty, transition, or initiation

You want to learn how to hear and trust your intuition

You’re craving deeper alignment and more honesty with yourself

You’re exploring partnership, sovereignty, and conscious relating

You need permission to end a chapter — or begin one

Sponsor: Anywhere Clinic

This episode is sponsored by Anywhere Clinic, your online destination for evidence-based mental health care.

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Timestamps

00:00 — Welcome to Austin: the start of a new chapter
02:00 — The invitation of change and the discomfort of the unknown
04:30 — Saying yes even when the path isn’t clear
07:00 — The first nudge toward Austin (and why it took years)
10:00 — Spiritual awakenings, internal shifts, and following the call
14:00 — Signs, synchronicities, and trusting the higher self
17:00 — Ending a marriage, beginning a pilgrimage
20:00 — Listening to your soul vs. abandoning yourself
24:00 — Kyle’s dark-night-of-the-soul and major life reset
29:00 — Surrendering control and learning to swim with life
34:00 — The moment their paths reconnected
38:00 — Devotion vs. compliance in conscious partnership
42:00 — Why safety and sovereignty matter before big decisions
47:00 — Ending well: how to close a chapter with integrity
52:00 — Starting a new chapter without leaking energy
55:00 — What they each hope to be known for in Austin
58:00 — Final reflections: movement over fear, alignment over certainty

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