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Aug 2023
8m 28s

For Sibling Spats: Be the Describer, Not...

Dr. Cathryn
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Sibs usually like being together, but playing nicely can be tough, especially with the age difference. Being the referee might not be the best way to manage sibling fights. In this episode, learn how to step in as the describer, not the divider. Dr. Cathryn shares effective strategies to encourage a healthier sibling dynamic while encouraging independence ... Show More
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