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Aug 2023
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Francie Winslow
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Ep. 271 Female Orgasm: What You Were Never Taught
This is the episode I wish someone had offered me years ago. We grew up in a culture that was simultaneously saturated with sexuality and almost completely silent about women's actual experience of it. And for those of us who wanted to stay honorable in our searching, we often di ... Show More
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Ep. 270 Small Daily Habits That Wake Up Your Pleasure
Female flourishing doesn't start in the bedroom. It starts in the kitchen. In the shower. At a stoplight. In five minutes on your front porch listening to birds. That might sound surprising — but it's one of the most freeing things I've discovered on this journey. The capacity to ... Show More
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