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Aug 2023
17m 53s

Teen Stories: Losing Control

MARK GREGSTON
About this episode

Most teens want to be in control of their own lives, but when they try to take the reins by force, it can lead to ongoing conflict with their families ... and things end up more out of control than ever. In this week's interview with Heartlight teens, Mark sits down with two older teens who reflect on their drug use and why they didn't want to listen to their parents' rules. Don't miss these conversations!

Need some more insight into the challenges of your own teen's life? Check out "What's Happening To My Teen?" by Mark Gregston at bit.ly/3zbI5hW

Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

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