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Jul 2023
37m 44s

Is It Fair To Ask Your Partner To Subsid...

BETCHES MEDIA
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We’re getting serious about the future in today’s Sunday Special, but first, Jordana’s brother came up with a new game for the pod, “Petty or Prudent?” Then, a listener writes about the financial fear threatening a happy future with his girlfriend. He chose a career path that would afford a comfy life for his future family, while she chose to pursue her pass ... Show More
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