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Jul 2023
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24: How Can I Look After My Relationship...

Anne Bland
About this episode

How to look after your love relationship, your lovership? What are the concrete and conscious ways to put your you and your partner's love first? Creating a "couple bubble" is a practice that will help your relationship to thrive and become sustainable. You can do this by learning what your lover's love language is. Do they prefer touch or gifts? Or maybe they love spending quality time with you or receiving well-thought gifts from you. How can you communicate to your partner in a way that puts a smile on their face and makes their heart sing? Knowing what really moves and touches them is the key. By doing that, you are showing that you know them, accept and honour them and love them the way they are. Have you got joint morning and evening rituals that strengthen your relationship even if the other one is a morning person and the other one is a night owl? 

You can use the holistic Tantric tools to create more presence and intimacy in your lovership beyond sex and love-making. You can download a free guide: "Pleasure is Your Birthright - 7 Holistic Sex Tools" from here:

https://selfishlyhappyyou.com/pleasure-is-your-birthright/

This open and honest, explicit podcast is for you if you are ready to explore your sensuality, sexuality, and spirituality through Tantra and Tantric Sex and are willing to unleash your full potential. Your podcast host, Anne Bland, is a Tantric Sex and Relationship Coach, a public speaker, and the leader of 'Selfishly Happy Revolution,' the next sexual revolution that starts from within. Anne will be sharing real-life stories about Tantra, giving her Tantric Sex Tips and Treats, and inviting others to join her on the show. Join the show by sending your question, comment, or feedback as a voice message here: https://www.speakpipe.com/SelfishlyHappy.

Would you like to be coached by Anne on the show, ask on your friend's behalf, or if you wish to explore private coaching with Anne, just email her to get more details:

annebland (at) selfishlyhappyyou.com

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