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Jul 2023
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Episode 207: The History of Kinky Sex

DR. JUSTIN LEHMILLER
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It turns out that for as long as humans have been having sex, they’ve been having pretty kinky sex! So let’s talk about our kinky history. In today’s episode, we’re going to explore the history of BDSM, the origins of the dildo and vibrator (and how they came to be so popular), the world’s first pornographic novel (Memoirs of a Woman of Pleasure) ... Show More
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