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Jul 2023
23m 33s

What NOT to do on First Dates

Coffee and Cleavage
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Lynnie, Shantal and Gary revisit dating and discuss what NOT to do on first dates! Which is the most important to not do? The trio each share their opinions and experiences on first date mishaps. 

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