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Jun 2023
1h 11m

What’s It Like To Be Gay In China? with ...

Sony Music Entertainment / Jonathan Van Ness
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What do 90 young, gay men in mainland China, Taiwan, and Hong Kong have in common? They’ve all spent years sharing their stories with this week’s guest: Dr. Travis S. K. Kong. He joins Jonathan as part of our Pride Beyond Borders series to discuss what it’s like to be queer in each of these places—and share his interviewees’ coming out stories, their experie ... Show More
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