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Jun 2023
13m 53s

Are straight people ‘endlessly boring?’

JAMES BARR AND DAN HUDSON
About this episode
James is very bored this week - bored of straight people dominating narratives in TV shows and ‘endlessly running marathons’, Is he just jealous that he’s not the centre of attention? Do other gay people feel the same? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices 
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