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Jun 2023
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SLP 284: The Language We Use Determines ...

THE WELLNESS COUCH
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‘The language we use determines the quality of our life. Now whether it’s the spoken language, whether it’s what’s coming through non-verbally or just those thoughts that we allow in, or those thoughts we allow to keep, these are the things for me that I want to share with the world to allow them to get rid of some of the self-belief that we have that is detrimental to us. And to start to be more conscious more present. For me, it’s about being present with the people I am with at the time. And I think that’s why service is so strong because when I am with you I want to do the best that I can for you and with you, and to listen to you, and just be the best version of me at that moment in time.’ ~ Catherine Molloy

Catherine Molloy is an international speaker, facilitator, author and creator of the million dollar hand shake  - how to powerfully connect in business and life. Fun, friendly and forward thinking, cshe is a ommunication expert who reveals the hidden psychology behind connection and influence and provides people with the keys to revolutionise their communication effectiveness. Catherine is an International Speaker, Author and Communication Expert, specialising in leadership, sales and service. With 25 years’ experience in business, education, speaking and transforming lives, Catherine believes that business success rests on the ability to build real connections at velocity. 

Her thought leadership is in how to hack the psychology of communication to build lasting connections, fast. Catherine has owned and operated several highly successful training companies and been recognised both nationally and internationally as a leader in sales and service. 

As Managing Director of Auspac Business Advantage, she has been  awarded The Australian Institute of management and leadership award , an International “Stevie Award” in America for Sales Training/Education Leader of the Year has completed her master of leadership, holds her masters of NLP is a certified Gallup Strengths coach and DISC consultant.  

After training and speaking internationally, Catherine has developed the award-winning Conscious Connection Framework. It is a holistic roadmap that combines insights from over 25 years of studying body language, behavioural science and Neuro-linguistic Programming to radically transform how teams and individuals self-lead and communicate. 

Catherine uses a variety of different tools to help build confidence, courage and grow your business. These skills have been honed during her extensive experience teaching cross-culturally and her passion to help people succeed. This desire to build multicultural relationships and cultivate healthy communication skills also features outside of work. She is a philanthropist and travels to Uganda to help build homes for orphans and vulnerable children, working closely with Watoto. Catherine is married, one husband, three children and two dogs.

Her definition of Self Love is putting your feet in the ground and looking up at the stars. Self-development for me is looking internally at who I am. One of the greatest tools we have been given is the gift of reflection. Self-love is talking to myself. It is asking, ‘What would you do now?’ Self-love is just knowing we are love, we are born with love. Asking yourself at the end of our days asking, ‘Did I love enough and was I loved?’

Her favourite quote is from Mother Theresa:

‘If you want to make a difference, go home and love your family.’

Links to follow:
Website: https://www.catherinemolloy.com.au/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/catherinemolloyspeaker/
Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/catherinemolloy/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/Cath_Molloy1
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/catherinemolloykeynotespeaker


Quotes:
Good things can come from crisis
Life as you know it will never be the same again
Every business should look at their leadership and customer service
There was just always that warmth always the story telling
Serving started at home
First impressions matter and it takes just 7 seconds
The language we use determines the quality of our life
Behaviours are so raw whether we are more dominant, more influential, steady or compliant
When you take risks you have to be more self-reliant
What is the end result we want?
My mind looks for the gaps
By the age of 9 we develop limiting beliefs
Courage comes when we are more vulnerable with ourselves
Every single person on this planet is a resource
I could not do what I do if it wasn’t fun
You are one of a kind you are more valuable than the Mona Lisa
We are all love
We all have unique gifts
Fake it til you believe it
Face everything and rise
We react before we speak which is where most communication can happen
You would not be in this business if you could not handle a no
Remember who you are and what you loved as a child
Do things that make your heart sing
Embrace who you are and love you for who you are, be true to yourself
 

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