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May 2023
1h 22m

The Ultimatum: Queer Love Episode 2 Reca...

Erika Heidewald
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The Ultimatum: Queer Love gets even messier in episode 2! Frida from the Extremely Gay podcast is back as guest host for this recap and review  and we finally address the issue that has the global lesbian community stumped - why is Vanessa like this??

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Season 2: Love Is Blind Season 4

Season 3: Love on the Spectrum US Season 1 

Season 4: The Ultimatum: Queer Love

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