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May 2023
57m 19s

Why You Need To Live Together Before Mar...

Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar
About this episode
On today’s solo episode, I discuss all things living together. I talk about splitting expenses, when the time is right to take the leap, rules you should have for a cohesive environment, how to greet your partner, carving out your alone time, creating good juju, masturbating, bathroom etiquette, and more.   Please note that this episode may contain paid en ... Show More
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