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May 2023
57m 51s

210. Calling All Control Freaks: How to ...

Glennon Doyle and Audacy
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In this unplanned conversation, Amanda speaks up for everyone who’s been labeled a “Control Freak” – anyone who feels like they have to hold up the entire sky for their families or businesses – when what they really want is to feel supported and safe. Amanda shares vulnerably about: how she became an overfunctioner, the blessings and curses of being one, and ... Show More
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