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May 2023
51m 13s

308: The Energetics of Getting Your Man ...

Monica Yates
About this episode

In this episode, Monica is giving you the real (somewhat unpopular) talk on getting your man to lead. It’s one of her most highly-requested topics to speak on, and today she’s breaking it down. Gear up for some radical honesty that will change the game for you and your man.


Unpacked in today’s episode:

🔥The 3 core dynamics of getting your man to lead: the actual relationship dynamic, self-respect & personal growth, and crystal clear communication

🔥The difference between self-love and self-respect (plus the TRUE meaning of “self-care”)

🔥Owning your part in the relationship, and how to NOT become “the bitter b*tch”

🔥Re-polarizing your relationship if you’ve been out of sync

🔥Creating more space in your life to allow you to be more in your receptive feminine energy

🔥The difference in your nervous system between rushing and calm energetically, even when things are moving “quickly” 

🔥What it takes to create an overflow of life-force energy and a balanced libido

🔥The way men have been hypnotized by the allure of the feminine for centuries


Plus, she’s giving you her honest review of Turks & Caicos, the “problem” with women making more $$$ than their man, AND is she becoming a YOUTUBER!? Tune in to find out!


As Mentioned In The Episode — 

Monica’s YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@monicayateshealth/ 


The Feminine Female Breadwinner: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/the-feminine-female-breadwinner-course 


EOD2: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/the-embodiment-of-dating-no-2 

HER: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/her 

The Man: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/the-man 


Queen Alchemy (Round 12) Extended Payment Plan (join the waitlist to fill out the application): https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/queen-alchemy 


Join Monica’s Email List: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/632a2bfbbf9a194f540c4ab0


Other Important Notes — 

Monica’s Book Waitlist: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/63bc867d329680c1aa644edf 


***Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at media@monicayateshealth.com to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica.


For 1:1 coaching inquiries or to take advantage of the extended payment plan for QA, email us at support@monicayateshealth.com.

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