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May 2023
42m 11s

The Chaser and The Runner: the Pattern t...

Jillian Turecki | QCODE
About this episode

Jillian shares Part 2 of one of her most popular episodes: The Chaser and The Runner. How do two people who love each other get trapped in a pattern of anxiety and avoidance? How can they break free of it? Jillian shares the truth about this dynamic and how easily it can erupt between two people. Get ready to learn things about this pattern you have never learned before.

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