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May 2023
23m 16s

Change Your Perspective: SITUATIONSHIPS

Violet Benson
About this episode
When we invest our time, emotions, and energy into relationships, we create a sense of familiarity and attachment. Saying goodbye means severing those connections, leading to feelings of loss and longing. So, how can we make goodbyes less painful? Today, Violetta talks about letting go and saying goodbye to the person you think was for you but was never th ... Show More
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