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May 2023
23m 51s

Stop giving SO much to someone you’re no...

Lyss Boss
About this episode
In this episode, I dive into a storytime about a guy I was taking on dates around New York City. I was putting in an unreasonable amount of effort…and for what? When someone isn’t your boyfriend, you shouldn’t be the only one making concrete plans. 
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