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May 2023
11m 52s

How to Ask For What You Want

Scott Smith - Motivation and Coaching
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How to Ask For What You Want Have you ever noticed how nobody gets to the point these days?  It seems like everybody is beating around the bush instead of asking for what they want. I have news for you.  People can't read your mind. If you want something, you will have to ask for it. But it's not all about you. Before I continue, I have a warning. Be careful ... Show More
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