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Apr 2023
36m 46s

Lifting The Lid - Episode 107 - The one ...

Clare Norman & Steve Ridgley
About this episode
Arising from Transactional Analysis, the idea of game-play originated by Eric Berne is the subject of this episode. In any human interaction or exchange, game-play is possible.

Clare and Steve explore examples they have experienced in coaching and supervision. They refer to the social and psychological messages that lie underneath games and how our need for strokes might unconsciously draw us into games.

Something to explore with your supervisor!
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