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Feb 2023
38m 45s

DEENTOUR 20 - SEEKING MARRIAGE IN ISLAM ...

Hussien, Osman, Osman
About this episode

In this episode we speak about a highly anticipated topic, marriage. Marriage is such a huge deal to us as Muslims because it is a beautiful bond that Allah subhana wa’taala praises in the Quran. Allah says “And We created you in pairs” means We have created you, males and females, from one type, so that each of them may find comfort in the other, so that there may be affection and compassion, which will result in offspring. (51:49).

We also talk about making relationships halal and why haram relationships are built to fail. We address the issues posed in our society today of cultural bias thrown onto our youth in terms of marriage when it comes to things like when to get married, the right amount of mehr, and how our parents and mahrams play a role in these decisions and parts of our lives.

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Timeline:

Intro - 0:00

Seeking Marriage - 0:30

Men and Women Together - 1:29

The System of Marriage Outside Islam - 3:04

Marriage In Islam - 4:07

Taking Advantage of Mehr - 4:27

Youth Romanticizing Marriage - 5:34

The Rights of a Husband - 6:57

The Society We Live In - 8:40

Khadijah RA - 10:00

Marriage is peace - 10:30

Haram Relationships - 12:04

Zina - 14:33

Points Made in the Quran - 16:15

Would You Marry Someone Who Did Zina? - 18:02

Backbiting And Humiliation - 19:00

Judging by what is apparent - 21:04

Are men to blame? - 23:08

Parents and Affect on Children - 25:52

Islam Values Family Values - 27:29

Female Promiscuity and Polygamy - 29:12

Divorce - 31:42

Would you Marry a Divorced Woman? - 33:17

Would you marry a non-hijabi? - 33:25

Outro - 38:13

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