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Sep 2022
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63. What to do when you don't understand...

My English Matters
About this episode

Sometimes the reason you don't understand someone may have nothing to do with your English!

There may be several reasons you don't understand someone in English:

1) The person speaks with a very thick accent that you're not familiar with

2) The person is from a different field or industry, so they use language or terms that you're not familiar with

3) The person is just not explaining something very well

4) The person speaks too fast

5) The line was breaking (if you're on a call) so you didn't hear them clearly

...and many more.

So before you start judging your English listening skills, consider those possible reasons and do your best to handle the situation smoothly.

In this week's episode, Amnah shares six things you can do when you don't understand someone in English.

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