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Mar 2023
34m 58s

The Secret to Great Sex

XO Podcast Network, Dave Willis, Ashley Willis
About this episode
On this episode, we are joined by Shaunti Feldhahn, Dr. Michael Sytsma to talk about their new book, Secrets of Sex and Marriage: 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference. They share some incredible research in this episode to help you and your wife have your most fulfilling sex life. Grab the book here: https://www.amazon.com/Secrets-Sex-Marriage-Surprises ... Show More
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